Parents: Have you caught yourself saying to your children, "If you don't _____, Santa's going to put you on the naughty list!!"๐ This time of year, it's tempting to use Santa's "naughty list" as a parenting strategy for correcting problem behavior. This can sometimes be a quick fix, but consider the following l o n g ๏ฝ๏ฝ ๏ฝ๏ฝ, positive behavior solutions.
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Have you ๏ฝ๏ฝ ๏ฝ๏ฝ๏ฝ๏ฝ๏ฝ ๏ฝ the behavior? ๐๐ฎ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐บ๐ถ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ฐ๐ต๐ถ๐น๐ฑ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐, ๐ฎ๐ฝ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ต๐ถ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐ต๐ฒ/๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ฑ๐๐ถ๐ป ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐บ๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐?
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Have you ๏ฝ๏ฝ๏ฝ๏ฝ๏ฝ๏ฝ the replacement behavior? ๐๐ฎ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฒ๐ ๐ฝ๐น๐ถ๐ฐ๐ถ๐๐น๐ ๐๐ฎ๐๐ด๐ต๐ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ฐ๐ต๐ถ๐น๐ฑ ๐ต๐ผ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ฑ๐ผ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฝ๐น๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ฒ๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐ ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ต๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ฟ? ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ฝ๐ณ๐๐น ๐๐ถ๐ฝ: ๐๐ผ ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ป ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ฐ๐ต๐ถ๐น๐ฑ ๐ถ๐ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐ผ๐น, ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐น๐บ, ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐น๐น๐ฒ๐ฐ๐๐ฒ๐ฑ!
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Have you ๏ฝ๏ฝ๏ฝ๏ฝ๏ฝ๏ฝ๏ฝ๏ฝ ๏ฝ the replacement behavior? ๐๐ผ๐ป๐๐ถ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐๐ฎ๐ธ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ถ๐บ๐ฒ ๐๐ถ๐๐ต ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ฐ๐ต๐ถ๐น๐ฑ ๐๐ผ ๐ฟ๐ผ๐น๐ฒ-๐ฝ๐น๐ฎ๐ ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐ฐ๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฝ๐น๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ฒ๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐ ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ต๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ฟ. ๐๐ด๐ฎ๐ถ๐ป, ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ป ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ฐ๐ต๐ถ๐น๐ฑ ๐ถ๐ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐ผ๐น, ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐น๐บ, ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐น๐น๐ฒ๐ฐ๐๐ฒ๐ฑ!
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Have you ๏ฝ๏ฝ ๏ฝ๏ฝ๏ฝ๏ฝ๏ฝ๏ฝ๏ฝ ๏ฝ the replacement behavior? ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฑ๐ผ๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ฐ๐ต๐ถ๐น๐ฑ ๐ธ๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ฑ๐ผ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ต๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐ถ๐ป๐๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฑ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ๐บ ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ต๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ฟ? ๐๐ก๐ฆ๐ช๐๐ฅ: ๐๐ ๐๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ถ๐ป๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฐ๐ฒ๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐! ๐ฅ๐ฒ๐ถ๐ป๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฐ๐ฒ๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐ ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฝ๐น๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ฒ๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐ ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ต๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐๐ต๐ผ๐๐น๐ฑ ๐ฏ๐ฒ ๐ช๐๐ฌ ๐ฏ๐ถ๐ด๐ด๐ฒ๐ฟ, ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฟ, ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐บ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ฒ๐ ๐ฐ๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด!
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By using these strategies, you can sprinkle your own "Christmas magic" on your parenting skills that lasts way beyond December 25th. If you ever find yourself doubting your parenting abilities this time of year, always remember... you have the power of knowledgeโฌ๏ธ, AND the power of Jesus Christ, who was born, took on flesh, and walked among us so we can live in relationship with Him! You've got this!
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โ๐ธ๐ฃ๐๐ค๐, ๐ค๐๐๐๐, ๐๐ ๐ฃ ๐ช๐ ๐ฆ๐ฃ ๐๐๐๐๐ฅ ๐๐๐ค ๐๐ ๐๐, ๐๐๐ ๐ฅ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ฃ๐ช ๐ ๐ ๐ฅ๐๐ ๐๐ ๐ฃ๐ ๐ฃ๐๐ค๐๐ค ๐ฆ๐ก๐ ๐ ๐ช๐ ๐ฆ.โ ๐๐ค๐๐๐๐ ๐๐:๐
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